It’s true when you love someone you love all of them; the good and the bad. But some things are better to avoid when you are in a relationship, especially when it comes to boys.
Boys are a complete mess; their hair, their room, their lifestyle. Well, there are some of your silly habits that she can manage because she loves you and she wants to appear as a cool girlfriend, but there are certain things that she can’t stand so you must avoid doing those things.
When you have a girlfriend, you can’t do all the gross guy stuff anymore. You have to change your habits, or else you will be risking your relationship.
Here is the list for boys stating the 10 things you must avoid doing in front of your girlfriend.
1. STOP CALLING OUR SISTERS/FRIENDS HOT
The reason why you should not call them hot or sexy is that they are too close to us. And we see all these situations in movies, and TV shows that it is just awkward for us, and the last thing we want to do is get any ideas like that in our head.
It doesn’t mean you are not supposed to look, or you are cheating on us but describing them as hot or sexy is surely not the way to compliment them. You would not want us to call your brother sexy, will you?
2. DON’T SOLVE ALL OUR PROBLEMS
It is sweet when you want to help us out in our problems, but there are times we just want you to listen. Instead of immediately coming up with a plan of action just listen to what we have to say.
We don’t always share our problems because we want your help, sometimes we share because we just need to get it out of our system, that’s it.
3. DON’T TALK DOWN TO HER.
Sadly there are so many women who have faced this behavior from men. Why is that when you approach a woman she is beautiful and when she rejects your advances she becomes a stuck up bitch.
Even when you are with a girl don’t be disrespectful, don’t discuss your fights in front of your friends. And if you think this a way to show your “manhood” then you are wrong, it’s just childish, and it will have an adverse impact on your relationship.
4. DON’T COMPARE US TO ANY WOMAN
We are fine when you look at other women in the shows, or in movies or your favorite youtube videos, or anywhere. The problem arises when you start comparing us to them.
You also know all the girls that are covered in make-ups and the beauty that you see is anything but not real. So why would you want us to be like that?
5. GO EASY WITH THE SPORTS CRAZE
We get that sports are very important to you, but you don’t have to go psycho over it. We understand your loyalty towards your team, but how you are shouting from home is going to help the team play, is the question here.
You can watch all the games you want but just make sure neighbors don’t call cops on us for violence.
6. DON’T LAUGH AT HER
Laughing with her when she cracks a joke or does something silly is nice, but Laughing at her is just plain rude.
Making fun of her for no apparent reason is wrong, and it may hurt her feelings. And even if she does something, wait for her to laugh first before you start to laugh.
Swearing is never appealing. Okay, swearing occasionally is not great, but it is acceptable. But it becomes tedious when you have to curse in every sentence.
You might want to avoid cursing too much in front of your girlfriend. A man you can make up a sentence without using any curse word is more attractive than someone who can’t stop swearing.
8. DON’T FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMEN
When you already have a girlfriend, that means you are not allowed to flirt with any other woman. This attitude is highly unacceptable.
When a boy says to a girl that he likes her, want to know her better and then the next moment he flirts with someone else right in front of her.
This is just going to hurt her feelings, and you can lose the girl. Girls need guys who are patient and loyal.
9. DON’T BURP OUT LOUD
One of the most irritating things that boys do is burping and making other sorts of noises that too loudly. Then on top of that, they start laughing after that.
This behavior surely is not a good trait of a lover. You better start working on it before she leaves you.
10. MAKE SEXIST JOKE
Whether you already have the girl, or there are possible chances, you can mess it up with your sexist jokes. There is nothing worse than a guy who makes sexist jokes in front of the women.
No woman would want to be with a guy like that. Sexist jokes are disrespectful, rude, and any girl would be offended by this activity.
Just because you got the girl doesn’t mean you can’t lose her. So if you do the above-listed things, you better improve your habits or else you could lose your girlfriend, possibly to someone who doesn’t have the above habits.